It is A Level results day
In England it is A Level results day.
I realised this morning over my tea and porridge that, for
me, this was another one of those mindful parenting moments. I blogged three years ago about our schooled life and how despite my feelings about formal education it was important to me
that Calum found his rhythm and that we found a way for it to work for our
family.
This morning those decisions felt significant. The A Level results represent the culmination
of his formal education (at the moment he has no plans for University). I need
him to know that I don’t value him any more or less because of academic
results. I know he knows this but it felt an approrpriate time to reinforce the message.
I am writing a series of articles at the moment on
sustainable authentic parenting. If we
declare a parenting ethos and believe in it whole heartedly how does that live
in the day to day? How do we stay awake
to being socially, culturally, economically, emotionally and environmentally
sustainable in the moments that make up our lives?
I intellectualise – it is how I make sense of my feelings
and my place in the world. It matters to
me that what I believe and how I behave match.
It matters that I am authentic. Like
anyone interested in a topic I have read many articles on parenting and taken
advice from people I respect and I have really thought about why I have disagreed
or agreed with particular things.
In our information saturated world the challenge is how
to take all the different bits of advice, support, ideals etc
and combine them into an authentic approach to parenting…….to anything. Walk your talk.
So this morning, on my way to work, hours before we knew the
results I gave Calum a big hug and told him how proud I am of him and the man
he is becoming.
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